Monday, September 29, 2008

Should you wait until marriage for sex?

They say that things that easy come, easy go. True? Well, in some cases yes. I have observed that most people put more value on things that they work hard for and waited for quite some time. This is so very true with the tree lettered word called SEX.
Mass media must perform its function as a catalyst for change. If the deteriorating value of many a youth today is caused by mass media, then it's about time that it functions otherwise. I have nothing against people who think that it is just okay to practice pre-marital sex. What I am so disgusted is the fact that a lot of people are so irresponsible when dealing with it. Some people are so careless as to the aftermath of pre-marital sex and the poor girl turns out as the loser in the end. So, girls out there, you better think not twice but a hundred times before you plunge into pre-marital sex. It is not always true that when a lot of people are doing it, it is already the right thing. It is still preferred to be the odd man out, rather than the one weeping alone. The three lettered word called SEX is not as simple as it looks. It entails full responsibility.

How to deal with anger?

Stay away from me. I'm mad. This is my common by line when I am mad. I try to keep away from people who make me mad. I do this in order for me not to hurt people verbally. I may say some hurtful words which I might regret after wards. So, what I just do is to keep myself from these people. Actually, this is very effective. I avoid confrontation because I don't want to make enemies. Others try to count for as long as they could just to alleviate their anger.

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Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Love vs. studies: Deciding what comes first

When you are still studying, it is but right to concentrate on your studies. But how would you entertain a certain feeling of admiration towards your opposite sex? Do you simply ignore it and focus more on your studies? Would you feel guilty if ever you fall in love? Is there really a right time to fall in love?
The key word here is always balance. If one knows how to balance his time in every aspect of life, nothing can ever go wrong. Learning to prioritize things is the deciding factor for success. Nobody can ever say that they fall in love at the right time for there is no such thing as the right time. You feel love in the most unexpected way and manner. Sometimes you just woke up one morning thinking of that person. You may even have some sleepless nights too. One thing that we must be grateful to our creator is for giving us this capacity to feel something towards a person. This makesus all distinct from his other creation.

Sunday, September 14, 2008


They say that you would only know that your partner truly loves you If he shows sign of jealousy. The thing is,up to what extent should we welcome jealousy and regard is as healthy. We have heard of so many news on crime for passion and the like. I guess, If ever one gets jealous he/she must learn to manage it. Never allow jealousy to rule over your system. Remember the golden rule on love: anything that is not in moderation is bad.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

"The Road Not Taken"

I am 35 years old now. I have a very vivid memory of a certain poem which my high school teacher asked us to read. I often wonder and ask myself the question "what If?" I guess, in one way or the other, all of us have asked this question. The poem by Robert Frost which always pops into my mind whenever I am down and melancholic goes like this:
The Road Not Taken

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I marked the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Robert Frost
Have you taken the right road? I hope that I did.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Scam or no Scam?

Last week I was so surprised when I read my email. An email caught my attention because the sender is asking for my full cooperation and I would have to keep the whole transaction as a top secret. All that I have to do is cooperate fully with him. He was an African banker according to him. In their annual accounting of the banks depositors, he said that they came across a certain dormant account because the client died in a plane crash or something and left no kin. He wanted me to pose as a kin to the deceased person. The amount involve? Only $8,000,000.00. The deal is that he will get the 55% and I will get the 40% and the 5% for all the expenses that will be incurred during the whole transaction. Tempting isn't it? I would be a hypocrite If I would tell you that I wasn't tempted. But after three days of thorough thinking, I came up with the decision that I would not go for it. Assuming that it is authentic, I couldn't afford to live luxuriously knowing that I claimed something which is not lawfully mine. I have a gut feel too that it is a fraud because they would ask you to send them your driver's license number, bank account number and some pertinent infos. I turned him down. After a day, I got another email from another person singing the same song again. I ignored it. I don't know with you.

How to get rid of CRACKED HEEL?

Are you tired and embarrass of being seen with your cracked heel? Well, worry no more. I have some useful and economical way to get rid of those cracked heel.

  • Mash two bananas and apply it on your cracked heel. Leave for five minutes.
  • Squezze two to three pieces of kalamansi and apply it on your cracked heel. Leave for five minutes.
  • Mix two tablespoon of petroleum jelly with two kalamansi and apply it on your cracked heel. Leave for ten minutes.
  • Apply petroleum jelly on your cracked heel and put on socks overnight.
Try any of those practical suggestions and you will see the result soon. You need not have a foot spa

Is It Okay to Give Your Kid The Latest Gadget In Town?

The very reason why parents work so hard is to provide their children with all their needs as much as all their wants. As a doting mother of six kids, I feel so happy and elated whenever I see my children so happy and contented with all the things that my husband and I are giving them. Children's brag right is so evident on their faces. The question is how much should we give our children? Should we always give them all their wants. Technological gadgets on games and communication system is so rampant in the market. You'll be surprised to know that your children would ask you to buy miniature gadgets which actually cost ten to twenty thousand pesos. My golly! The price is so dear that it could already mean a half month of our food allowance. I remember when my second child celebrated his 14th birthday this year. He was asking for a PSP as his birthday gift. My husband did not give in to his request because we know that his studies is not doing great this year because he is into computer games so badly. How much more If he could have that little gadget wherein we could not monitor his usage of it.? We know that he was sad and upset but we have to be firm on our decision. In the end he would understand that we are just being stern for his own sake.

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